Darlin', those aren't realities. Those are illusions. If you don't pay attention and stand home, you may lose this reality. It isn't very sweet, But there are feelings here you will forget and they take a very long time to come back. Maybe you won't miss them, but when or if they start coming back, your heart will ache for having been without them for so long. They are very tender and invigorating, I love them for I can't ever think of being without them ever again!!!