I'm sorry. I didn't mean to come across that way. We all have our issues. And trying to communicate through a computer is sometimes bothersome, because computers don't show any emotion. :)
I think every married couple has had issues at one time or another, or all throughout their marriage.
I was just trying to share with you, how 1 Peter 3 has spoken to me, God pointed that scripture to me one day - when I was feeling down about my own marriage and mistakes that had been mad along my marriage journey.
I'm sorry if you thought I was making light of your situation. That was not my goal.