When I do EFT for someone because of my faith I say to the Lord "Lord, this is a tapping prayer for _____" and then I tap as if I were that person. For instance my brother told me that he and his wife were constantly fighting and had issues with eachother. So I tapped for each one as if I were them concerning their issues. The next day my brother reported that they had made up for the first time in months. Coincidence? Only to the sceptics. I believe that if the person does not want change/relief the tapping prayer may not do much good but if they want resolve and don't know how to get it surrogate tapping/prayers can be very effective. Try it and see for some one you care about.