I loved all of the witnessing Miss Rainy, but why did you end it the way you did "so much for the pastor who insists that you submit to him" Why would you say that? Did a pastor ever insist that you submit to him? The ones I know are caring, loving people who will pray with you, visit you when you are sick, conduct funerals for your loved ones. My brother in law is a pastor and devotes his life to all sorts of things that anybody in his church needs. He spends time and puts a lot of thought into his sermons every week.
And you know those beautiful prayers that Vektek shares from Scotty Smith, he is a pastor. Most pastors have a calling on their life to preach, to help, and lead people to Jesus.