Well yeah, I definitely think there should be balance too. My sister is known for airing out everything, sending mass emails out about things that probably shouldn't be mass emailed. I'm sure the whole world knows about this situation between my husband and I by now. In fact, emails are flowing in with prayers from people I don't even know.
:) But maybe that's good, we need all the prayers we can get!
Believe it or not, I'm known by a lot of people to be very shy and reserved. I only spoke to about two people all through high school and almost failed one class because I refused to speak when speaking was part of the grade. I've improved since then. But if I know a person well, I'm known to sometimes talk their head off and be very open.