One of the things that caused me to gravitate to you in the beginning is because you remind me of my daughter. She too has a strong belief system that all should be aired out...no matter how it is viewed by others. However, the more she aired, the more quiet I became and the more quiet I became the more she aired. Neither person was comfortable.
Again....I think the answer is somewhere in the middle....balance in all things.
I just hope you will both find the balance in communication. :)