“Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You're done. It doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have lunch with the person. If you keep hitting back, you stay trapped in the nightmare...” Anne Lamott
I hope I'm done hitting back, not sure. But I know I'm not ready to have lunch. Or breakfast. You can go do that with your brother.
But this isn't about forgiveness anyway. It's about trust. Trust has been broken, and broken trust is not easily fixed.
Just sayin. This feels really weird talking about our marriage issues on here. I guess I started it.