I'm still taking baby steps with her. I'm working on getting her to talk about it right now. She has been in this mode for years so it will be a challenge to get her to start thinking in another direction. Especially since she is competitive with me. Or should I say just plain jealous.
She is struggling in her life with many things right now so
I have to wear kid gloves, I guess. I don't want to add to her problems but I also don't want her to add to mine.
Sometimes I just want to unload on her but that would only do me good and I think it might only be temporary because then I would regret it. We are Christians and we are also as close as sisters. Her mental health is important to me too.