Yes, good point. My friend is worth it. That's why I struggle so. I've quit being around many people including my mother-in-law because they have brought me down but my best friend has many things that I DO value and I deeply care for her. She is struggling too and I understand that. She needs coping skills as much as I do. Neither of us handle our stress that's the problem. We are like two battering rams going head to head for it's futile for us to share our burdens with one another.