I KNOW exactly what you mean. I have a friend who goes from one crisis to another. I cringed when I saw her number show up on caller id. I started avoiding her calls and not returning her messages. I just couldn't handle getting sucked up into another one of her crisis. It finally occurred to her I was avoiding her calls so she called my hubs. His adrenals aren't much better than mine. I finally had to email her that I just didn't have the energy to talk on the phone or visit. She's a hot mess and I don't EVER think that that will change.