Re: Toxic Relationships

No, my husband is VERY supportive, my friend is dealing with ADHD, illeostomy, several degenerative discs, migraines, chronic pain, recent divorce from a Narcissistic SOB (she got totally screwed). We have spent literally hundreds of hours helping her get her finances straight, computer straight only to have her delete something or mess something up that required hours to undo. She asks for advice, we give it and then she does the opposite -- to her detriment. I could go on and on. It's sad really. She's a lovely woman, with a good heart but I had to step back. I cannot "save" her. Even if it were in my power to do so, I don't have the energy reserves to wade back in and deal with yet another crisis. She belongs to a large church and has a group of divorce recovery friends she can get help from. I cannot do it any more. Tweet