Dude, criticising me not trying to help me is rather a failure on your part, I except my failings, I admit to everything you've said and I know the reasons for them but to just basically have a go at me is pretty lame since yeah, I will argue till I'm blue in the face for no real reason. Everyone else, well mostly everyone else, has been fairly tolerant of me and have tried to offer some advice which I'm grateful for. You can't just become a sympathetic/nice person, this is where health of the body comes in, I just have to actually achieve what I preach.