harsh. really harsh to hear out loud, isn't it? why allow people into your life that aren't right in the head? always amazes me that folks come into this forum and spout the obvious negatives about this girl or that guy and end it by saying "but i love her". she's a problem. meds screw with a person. don't discount that fact. you're dating a depressed person who has to take medication to cope with life. you're 38, right? is this the life you want to make for yourself? she'll throw a fit now, later, and well into an eventual marriage. this is what you're signing up for, mate. life shouldn't be this tough. if she throws a temper tantrum once more during your dating process, dump her. i've told guys to do this for years and years on curezone and they come back thanking me. they now have "normal" women who ADAPT and react normally to life's curveballs. chances are you won't heed my warning but if you do...i'll be waiting for my "thank you" in a couple...