I have to say that I am so sorry you have to spend so much time clarifying and repeating and 'policing' this forum like this. God knows you have more important things to do!
We gotta grow up people!(some of us more than others:). This forum is about healing, and I think we gotta take our egos out of that, think twice before posting just anything, and honestly questioning our motives if we want to debate.
That's not what this haven is about. Gotta keep it that way, and it's ALL of our jobs, not just Uny's.