I am so sad that you have had to deal with all the negative that has gone on here.
Your husband's post is my new 'favorite'. His strength of character really shines. He found a way to get done what he needed to do. By sharing his experiences with all of us here, I know he has inspired others to find a path that will work for them, no matter how full their schedule/life is.
As for YOU... your journey has been inspiring me for months! You are a 'get er done' gal for sure. I want you to know that you have helped MANY with your willingness to share so openly and in wonderful detail. After all this ugliness, I hope you will soon be able to sleep and heal once again. Maybe, it will help to 'hear' what a positive effect you have had on myself and countless others. I am INSPIRED by you and your husband!!!