He's not making ML & friends out to be victims - he's saying that sacred mirrors are as fractured and complex as the people that choose to look into them or throw shards once it's been broken.
The only place where I mildly disagree with Grz (because the *$%& is too likable to disagree with completely) is that ML stepped outside of the comfort zone when there was no introspection on his part for repeated requests to do just that. Again - pointing fingers at others from within his own forum and highlighting their suffering in a fashion so as to exult his viewpoint above others - that's where I would draw a line in the sand.
Sacred mirrors mean that anything that pushes a button in you is meant to make you self reflect and I mean that to ML as much as I do ANYONE.