Oh, one more thing....when I was going through the "break up" I lost a ton of weight. Hell I looked incredible. But it was more than my weight in the end...he just wanted out.
I looked so good in fact that it helped my ego immensely. And when I finally saw Kurt about 6 months later the look of surprise on his face was fantastic. And oh yes, he started to make those old sounds, but by then it was like....OH HELL NO.....
I don't wish for a break up for you, and I hope that's not what I was advising, but I just want you to be in the driver's seat again. I re-read my post and thought that it might have seemed like I was advising you to do that.
But if the worst does happen, hold your head up high and realize that no matter how much you eat post-breakup, girlfriend you're going to look fabulous!! LOL...sorry just trying to interject a bit of humor into this drama....