Re: 10-year Relationship in Trouble

Dear #117514

My advice to you would be to try and meditate, be still (or as still as you can), take some time out mentally; and instead of "doing", try instead to clear your mind of thoughts so that in time you will get some more persepctive on all that has happened.

This may take time to get more perspective including gathering more knowledge and clarity, and in time, once you have found some "peace" what to do next may become clearer to you.

Do nothing now, neither of what your girlfriends tell you or what your male friends tell you.

I know this sounds extremely difficult, but "doing" is the problem when the "problem" is something still unfolding infront of you and not yet fully understood. What I mean by this is that you don't have all the information yet; and one should never jump before one really knows what is going on.

I would wait and see what happens; and use this time to nurture yourself, really take care of yourself.

All the best to you, I really hope it works out.
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