you're sweet spudlydoo, I think you're great for having such a strong spirit to learn about the things you've learned and beneficially apply them to yourself and those around you whom you can influence. If I run away to australia, I'd like to think you'd have a place in the barn for me to hang out at for a while. I'm really good with cars, and plumbing too. Is it a requirement that I commit a crime before they'll let me in there ? I bet we'd make a dynamic duo, if your husband agrees.