Re: Reading People

Thanks, Tracey!

Actually, it's more like a null and void when dealing with coworkers, bosses, the world in general. His friends, the one's he's kept at least, tend to be pretty good people, but his previous choices in females was - shall we say, lacking ANY judgement? He tended to wait for them to make the move (like he did with me) but didn't seem very good at dodging. LOL

Funny, though, as his judgments in all other areas are Very good (except, occasionally money, but, computers are expensive toys.) That wonderful INTJ Virgo attention to detail just clicks along, and his intuition on places and things is spot on, it's the people aspect he seems to miss. Because of this, he tends to be a bit of a loner although he does like to get out and follow some of his interests. His friends are rather like him in that we occasionally catch up, but they aren't a major part of our life, unless they are MY friends, first, if that makes any sense. I have male friends who are now friends of mine and good friends of his, like he trusts my judgment, but not his own and somehow just lucked out with the friends he's kept.

If it's not seeing through the 12th house veil, that veil is an iron curtain! lol Wonder what we can do to help lift the curtain.....

But, what's really odd is he can read people on TV or the movies but in real life it just evaporates. Long before the plot gives anything away. He can walk by, not even watching the show at all, a scene he's never seen before and pretty much pick out the bad guy as being bad or the unstable one or whatever in just seconds - and the show doesn't develop that twist for another hour. That kind of thing.

I wonder about his mom's influence because of a lot of what he's told me of his childhood. Just wanted to see where in his chart that would be registered, but I know it's hard not knowing anything about his mom's birth info.

Oh, I'm just rambling and rambling today! Anywhich, a big Thanks for the hints. =)

Oh, and thanks for the email - that's fine! Just appreciate the insight when you can get around to it. =) Gives me time to finish all the natal stuff for a full chart and see what I can wiggle out of the transits. The natal and it's aspects are flowing well, it's those darned transits and their aspects to natal that I keep tripping over! lol Tweet