I have been on this forum for a while now and I still get a gentle reminder of the "I" condition. It's just a mode we get into when our focus is on ourselves. Hard to find healing that way. We sure do not want to block it.
Best wishes with your condo but realize that you did not waste your time here unless you are planning on leaving.
There are so many things you will learn that you were not expecting that will carry over into your personal life in a big way. If you are wise you will watch and listen.
Your education is not in vain, if you strive for it. :)