Re: Putting words in one's mouth....
You have insinuated that we are using
poor judgment and exhibiting "herd
mentality". (bad behavior)
I am also not getting people to bash
you either. I responded to your post
specifically since your own suppositions
reminded me of being on the receiving
end of a rumor mill in overdrive when
I went on a trip with my friend's
husband and people were foaming at the
mouth to make a mountain out of a mole
hill. I do not think it was anyone's
business, and since you asked, I do
not think it is any of your business
to involve yourself in speculating on
your boss's relationship with this
woman, especially when you have no
proof. You calling him a liar and a
racist made me wince. I imagine you
will pursue this matter for better or
worse, but if you are wrong, do not
expect people to pat you on the back
for all the doubts you are raising.
best wishes,
Zoe
-_-