Well said, Zoe. The original poster was obviously seeking justification for their tendencies to be a busybody - this is apparent with the accusation that, if two respondants offer similar responses, then a crowd will follow! What self-serving tripe! LOL A person asks for opinions and then has the gall to make sweeping accusations because they didn't find the responses that they were hoping for (or, expecting). I can't even imagine how empty their personal life must be...
To the original poster: you just go ahead and behave like a sullen child, and keep feeding your jealous, nosey monkey! Entertaining yourself with prying into the business of other human beings will take you down a long, lonely, dark path in Life. So, find whatever enjoyment you can glean from your inappropriate preoccupations and have a happy life, if you can!