Re: What do you all think about whistleblowing?
Gee, 79767...what does this have to do with narcissism?
I find this thread in the forum titled, 'NPD: Narcissism/Sociopathy Survivors Forum: Support Forum for Survivors of Narcissism/Sociopathy'.
Folks here have done and do find their way through major 'stuckedness', unhappiness, and even peril.
They often have children, younger and older, to protect and care for.
I can't see that your question...and your opinions...really apply to these folks.
I also wonder where you got your definitions of 'bad', and 'good'.
Perhaps that's where you should focus your attentions.
At the very least, you can change your own point-of-view, if appropriate and desired. You can feel better...but you can't change another's mind, even if you feel strongly that you'd like to.
That is THEIR job! And, they will or they won't...beyond anything you can do.
The best you can do for yourself, I think, is to wish them well, no matter what...inside your head and heart...and leave others out of what you think may be 'going on'...just in case.
Of course, if you saw someone in peril, you would step up as a rescuer or a comforter, I am sure...offering your services quietly, where they are wanted.
But the crusader, the would-be champion who treads on the rights of others with hob-nailed boots, may very easily find themselves alone, and lonely.
Truly 'helping' is all about subtlety, I believe.
Be safe, not sorry.
My best,
Fledgling