He choked me, this is what I mean by he put his hands on me. And yes I did tell him that, because he is the most pretentious person you could meet, at home he can't stop calling me the B****, and in public he is the most doting husband.
Well. If this is true you and your husband should get some type of counseling. Behavior like this can escalate. In his defense is their anything you have done to set him off?