It's pretty clear to see, pal. You're holding on to a dead fish here. Next thing she's gonna do is do some coworker, then where will you be? Get your finances in order, clear out some bank accounts, load up some traveling money, get the hell out of that marriage. See the lawyer, get visitation, get your manhood back. Don't think or act like you're the only guy that's ever been done wrong by a woman...geez. Stand up straight and tall and make us proud!