My side of the story
I really hesitated to respond to this post, because I understand that my husband has come here for support. But one thing he forgot to mention is that the reason I won't have sex with him is because he put his hands on me. How does a woman get past that and let a man like that in again?
We have been separated before, and he sees the kids when he can, so whoever suggested he have the kids suggest something else.
Another major point that he forgot to include in his plea is that I have stayed at home with our two kids for four years and now that I'm out of the house again, he has absolutely lost his mind. He has basically handed me his balls by becoming an insecure jerk.
The problem is this, we have two young kids, and I have no family to help with them. I have a two hour commute to work, therefore need him at home to help pick them up or drop them off when he can. He has made it clear that if he leaves, I am basically on my own as far as getting them to daycare and getting them home. So we are together just for the kids.