Re: help winning my love and best friend back

"The thing you have to realize is, we don't take pride in telling you, "wait until you get into the real world" because we've been told that ourselves."

Definitely, words of wisdom - there are some lessons that I wish I'd never had to learn, but my Survival isn't meant to be selfish. My Survival is a gift that I am morally required (and, pleased to comply with) to assist others in their Survival.

Stevebob, if you're still reading, these heartaches and times of distress are Nature's Way of preparing us for the HUGE heartaches that we must all face during our lifetimes - watching our parents die when we cannot help them, stop the process, or ease their pains; burying our infant that has passed from SIDS; escaping a violent relationship; picking up the pieces of what's left of our homes after a house fire; etc. This is a time of learning and strengthening for you.

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