going to keep this short and sweet, keep a tape recorder on you and catch her saying all kinds of crazy @$#! next time she flips out, dont even tell her you have the dirt on her. If ever she tries to take your kids play 2 hours of tape in court. the judge wont think twice,. once you get the have the tape i suggest leaving that miserable @%! and take your kids with you out of that warzone environment. YOU DESERVE BETTER.. well probably :P