Wife's blackmail

Hello to everyone..this is my first time here.

My wife of 12 years has a history of exploding and throwing things at me and screaming at the top of her lungs inches from my face, if I go to another room she follows. I do my best to advoid confrontation with her. I do not even sleep in the bedroom with her. When I do speak up she says that she will take the kids, everything in the house, and leave. She used this increasingly over the past few months. The last couple days she has been real nice to me.

Well she got on me for sitting in my chair and she pulled out these papers saying she got an apartment. And that she is taking what she wants and leaving. Although she does say she loves me. But I do not trust her with my 3 kids. She has a history of snapping at them as well. The problem is I say the kids stay with me and she says she is taking them and if I try anything to stop her she will cry wolf (whatever that means) My kids are my life. I love them dearly and do not want anything to happen to them.

Are there any options for me ? Oh yeah my wife is still here. She says she does not want to go to her apartment because she has no furniture.

I am going nuts...and I cannot say anything or she goes ballistic. And I cannot handle that kind of stress any more.



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