Re: feelings as guidance system for conscience right and wrong, not for "REASONS".

A person who doesn't rely on/play "games" (head games) cannot be/refuses to be "played"/manipulated (a "straight-shooter"). Ninety percent of society doesn't like this because their "notariety"/status (claim to fame) is built on "games" (they want you to play their game so they can convince you that THEY are a bigshot). Their "game" is called SUBJECTIVE reality (scenarios), not OBJECTIVE reality.

Some people get frustrated very quickly when they realize that you're not easily impressed by the things they do or say, but then, that is because they are shallow and will ultimately USE YOU as soon as they get the chance,...sad, they aren't always aware that they do this, it's a subconscious habit with them (I'm not only arrogant, I'm cynical,...you think you have socially "undesirable" traits!).

"PERSONALITY" traits don't determine a person's NATURE. Ideally, "personalities" are only for T.V. and public relations (or should be). Your NATURE will be difficult for some people to deal with ("hack") only if they want to play head games on you.

People who are just/fair, mind their own business (are not nosy busybodies) and are happy with their own lives (the only kind of people that I will know) simply aren't going to be interested in playing games on you, it's the people who are "needy" who will play games and develop a "personality" in order to impress/con others.

So, whoever judges your BEHAVIOR/"traits" to be "undesirable",...LATER for them (I'm also sometimes considered an SOB to some people).

If we are careless, people rather have (make us) a CONVENIENT "nice guy", not just someone people are glad to know (it's human nature).