You are your own expert :-)
It was most definitely LOA that we are talking like this. I heard your silent asking and I responded. You were wanting this quite a lot and I was wanting to share. This is the vibrational match.
There's a saying "when the student is ready, the teacher appears". Now, it's more than likely you are the teacher. It works like that. You're teaching me to clarify my understanding of LOA!
You only need to focus on what feels good for you. If it feels good to make the call, do it ASAP.
This is an important point. There is no expert out there. You are your best expert. ALWAYS listen to how you are feeling. It is not important for me to say why you should or shouldn't phone. I can not feel what you feel. My perspective will always be different from yours.
Most people have set their own intuitive powers aside and replaced it with teachers, leaders, experts etc. The more you look to others for advice, the less you become your own wise counsel.
I am not here to teach you what feels good. You already know that. I am just guiding you to remember what you already know. If you didn't already know this, you would not be hearing this as the truth.
There are only 2 emotions, 1 feels bad and one feels good. So, follow what feels good and you are doing what is right for you in this moment.
My only suggestion, should you feel it feels good to phone, is to sit with some happy thoughts of him before phoning, and then if you get through, it sets a positive vibrational tone.
I've still got a lot to say! Just working up to another burst of info for you :-) Then you can print it all off and work on it over the holidays. I'm going to write more later today about how you can help him. It will be good :-)