Re: #79252 - Relationship LOA - Negatives

From your post:
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"We are married and my husband has strong abandonment issues from childhood. ... his issues prevented us from having the kind of relationship we both really want. We were seperated because of that for almost a year and got back together for nine months, then since September took a break again after we had a serious talk about us which made him back away. Now it lokos we are back to having contact once again since just yesterday."

"Its basically all based on a lack of trust that I would always be there for him and never abandon him."

"I know now, that focusing on his issues and what I didnt like created only more of that."

"BTW he had tried to call me after three weeks since we had the talk in September but didn't leave any message and so I didn/t call him back. I was afraid he still would not be ready to make any changes and was just checking in to see me. He tried again a couple weeks after that, again no message."

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This has clearly been your dominant vibration for some time, hence the situation right now. You are quite right, in order to create a new reality, you can not be focussing on the lack of what you want.

Your fear of him not being ready to make changes only adds weight to it.

And we are not going to focus on his issues, we are going to focus on yours. We are only in control of our own vibration. You change your vibration from fear to joy and everyone else around you changes.

It will be impossible to switch off from the above thoughts (what seems like current reality) immediately, but slowly, you are going to begin to focus only on the positives, so that you can create a more attractive vibration for all that you want.

You are here to create the world around you that is of your choosing. At the same time allow him to create the world of his choosing. And while his current actions and choices do not hinder your choices, if you continue to pay attention to his choices, it does affect your world and your point of attraction.

So, in order to succeed with LOA, you need to be in selfish pursuit of your personal joy.



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