Do this exercise when you're feeling good. If you're not feeling good, it's easy to think negatively and this process won't work.
This really helps you focus on what you do want. But it's just a game, so play it softly, with no expectations and have fun!
•Wouldn’t it be fantastic if X becomes more open and communicative
•Wouldn’t it be fantastic if X was more generous and thoughtful
•Wouldn’t it be fantastic if X wants to spend more time with me
Keep going. You can then take these good feelings into your visualisation.
Remember, you are not to expect change from him. That is not the goal. The goal is for you to feel good. You feel good, you raise your attraction power.