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Hi Dave,
Those "over methylation" symptoms are possibly hypokalemia or pottassium deficiency which is life threatening.
I have started Freddd's protocol and he heavily cautions to watch out for that when beginning, have some pottassium on hand and be cautious. I am really learning a lot about starting methylation from him and here is the rundown of what to do:
http://forums.phoenixrising.me/index.php?entries/my-understanding-of-freddds-protocol.1697/
check it out, it is very very interesting and helpful. He has worked with lots of people going through what you are experiencing, his protocol is very methodical...good luck!
HappyManatee
I'm so sorry that you're experiencing this stress, and you have options.
First of all, it's important to understand what an "inheritance" is, legally. It is a gift, and not an obligation. So, if your uncle has known you your entire life, he's going to make his Will the way that he wishes. If this sister is coercing him into altering his Will, that can be addressed through Estate Courts.
If you have not been in contact with this sister, for whatever reason, you are under NO obligation to respond or even communicate with her if her discussions are going to revolve around money.
If it were me, I would let things fall as they will. There will be an Executor named to manage the estate, and that Executor must follow the wishes of the benefactor, your uncle.
*****PLEASE, NOTE: I am not an attorney, nor do I have a license to practice Law in any State. What I am going to type, below, is based upon my personal experiences, only. If you have any questions, it is BEST and ADVISABLE to consult an Estate Attorney about your options.*****
Next, it is vital to understand what will happen with the funds in the Estate. First, all residual financial obligations must, by Law, be satisfied. If there are mortgages, loans, medical expenses (not covered by insurance), outstanding utility bills, and funereal costs, those must all be satisfied, FIRST. After those obligations have been satisfied, then the Estate is distributed only after being "probated" by the Court, unless a "Living Trust" was recorded which prevents the need of going through Probate Court. Of course, this applies to the United States, and specific States have their own Laws with regard to Estate Probates. The UK has similar requirements, as does Canada, though I don't know the specifics of their criteria.
Probate Court determines the validity of all Last Will And Testaments and "find" all possible relatives that might be possible beneficiaries of an Estate.
Finally, if, after all debts have been satisfied, you feel that you are entitled to a portion of the Estate, you have the option of "contesting" the Will, especially if you believe and can prove that this sister interfered or coerced the uncle into altering his Will.
So, a million dollars may sound like a shit-ton of money, but after all is said and done, there isn't going to be a whole lot left to distribute. And, that the sister is literally waiting for this uncle to die so that she can have money is a very unseemly and disturbing thing. You may decide that this uncle's money isn't as important as your emotional well-being. People do insane things when money is involved, so it will have to be your personal decision as to how you approach the whole sad matter.
Good luck to you!
I don't know about the costs of DNA testing, but there are many sources available out there, these days.
As far as interacting with the sister, if you aren't concerned about the uncle's Will (good for you!), then there is literally no reason (legal, or otherwise) to communicate with her. Seriously. And, if you choose this route, it means not answering her calls, responding to emails, blocking her texts, etc. If she's toxic to you, there are the options of: a) exposing yourself to manipulations or other toxic behaviors by allowing communications, or; b) going "No Contact" and disallow her drama/trauma. It's a personal decision, and you know better than anyone else whether this line of communication is healthy, or not.
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