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So I'm 21 years old and I've had health problems since I was in middle school/ high school. It started out with insomnia, which kept worsening. By the time I was 14 I had dark circles around my eyes constantly, even when I caught up on sleep. I had rumors at school going around about me that I was drug addict because of this. By the time I was 16, my insomnia had worsened, and when I did fall to sleep I had sleep paralysis.I also developed hypoglcemia. I was also cold and tired all the time. By 18 I started having bowel issues. Mucus and lots of gas in them. By the time I was 19 I developed chronic postnasal drip which never went away. I started having sleep paralysis almost every night. My Acne worsened. My skin was pale, I was freezing all the time. My eyes had constant black circles around them. I had also developed severe anxiety out of nowhere. My hpyoglycemia was horrible and I started having sharp pains under my right rib cage and hair loss. I went to the doctors, but they found nothing. Sugar and carb cravings constantly as well. At 20 I started on birth control, yaz, for my Acne as they found I had high levels of testosterone. 3 months in all my Acne disappered. But I got sick as hell. I got pink eye and tonsilitis, started having muscle aches all over and became so fatigued I could barely ever get out of bed. I had muscles aches in my legs too. My bowel problems got even worse. I had pain in my lower stomach everytime I ate and they were very hard to get out, but very frequent. Almost everytime I ate I would have them. I continued to get recurring tonsilitis and strep several times over. I went to the doctors several times over but they never found anything. They just told me it was all probably depression.
I pretty much gave up on ever getting better as supposedly there was nothing wrong with me. I had just turned 21 and decided to use to tiny bit of energy I had to just have fun. I ended up deciding to have sex with a guy I'm friends with. I was a virgin and was planning on waiting til I was in a serious relationship for sex, but with the way my health was going I didn't see it possible for me to have energy for a serious relationship and kind of just wanted to try out sex while I still had the energy. I didn't use a condom because I was on birth control. Stupid I know. 4 days later it started to burn and itch down there and I got infinitely sicker. I had insomnia before but I went 4 full days without sleep after. I had bowel problems before, but now my bowels have gotten so much worse after. I have to stick my finger up to pull them out (gross i know) or they won't come at all. They vary in color from yellow to green with black spots and blood in them and are completely indigested. I can barely make bowel movements at all anymore and end up vomiting a ton instead when I eat. I also lost the ability to cry, not an emotional thing my eyes got all dried out. This all happened after the sex I'm pretty sure I caught something from him and my body is not strong enough to handle it. I went and got tested for STD's they all came back negative, I got examined too and the woman said the skin was inflammed and looked irritated. She gave me some antifungal cream for it. Which did not do anything. It's been 3 months since the sex now and it's still constantly irritated and inflammed down there. I've lost a ton of weight cause my body won't handle food anymore. And I can no longer sleep at all without a sedative. I told my mom and she thinks it's all just "anxiety" from feeling guilty about having sex. But it really isn't. I believe I caught something and my body wasn't strong enough to handle it. I'm now very underweight and sick because of it. And I don't know what to do.
I believe I had adrenal fatigue and candida before, possibly CFS. My body temperature was always low (now only 96 degrees) which is a sign of AF I know, and my blood pressures drops significantly from sitting to standing another sign. Plus I found out I have low cortisol levels. My question is, is there any way I can cure whatever I picked up from the sex so that I can get back to where I was? I'm so ill and underweight now. And my body won't function anywhere near normal. I'm scared I might be dying and I'm only 21.Advertisement
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- Re: Extremely Ill after sex Kcirla
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507Well, it seems to me that you're a long term sufferer of candida overgrowth, you're right. About what happened after the sex, I can't really tell you, but it is very likely given your symptoms that your flora (gut and vaginal) was disturbed in the first place. And this is our first line of defense against pathogens.
Don't worry too much, you can be healthy again if you take adequate actions. You will need patience and a lot of efforts, but it is worth it. If terminal patients with weeks to live have made it, you can do it too.
First thing, before starting any protocol. You need to make sure you're going to the loo at least twice a day, otherwise the toxins that any cleansing will release will keep recirculating and you'll feel worse.
You can try psyllium seeds and see if that agrees with you. If you're not having two daily bowel movements, don't be affraid to rely on herbs like senna to make you go. Some people scare off others saying that stimulants like senna will cause dependancy, but you're not gonna need it for the rest of your life. Once you will be healthy enough, you won't need it anymore and the bowels will work on their own.
How is your diet? Many people would tell you to go on a low carb/high protein and fat diet, but if you can't digest your food already you're gonna end up much worse.
You need to eat plenty of raw vegetables, and some chosen fruits in moderate amounts only on an empty stomach. Keep animal protein to a minimum. Good fats from olive, coconut, pumpkin seed oils and avocados. No grains. For carbs, go for the raw carrots, beets, jerusalem artichokes. Try to get your hands on a juicer, even a centrifungal one which is cheap (extractors are far better but not all can afford them) and drink as much fresh vegetable juices as you can.
You need to start making your own homemade milk kefir, preferably from goat milk. This will provide some of the proteins you need. Kefir will kill pathogens that are making you sick and repopulate the gut with friendly bacterias, which is key in gaining your health back. You can also do kefir vaginal douche to relieve any discomfort down there and fight the infection.
You need to support your liver during the cleansing process. For that, take some milk thistle, drink beet juice daily and even consider coffee enemas. They will help your liver big time and will actually increase the peristalsis of your bowels. Also, consider taking activated charcoal to absorb the toxins. I believe you'll need to Liver Flush at some point, which can be an unpleasant experience, but it is key in my opinion to free the liver of unwanted stones and parasites that we almost all have.
You should also add antifungal and antiparasitic foods and herbs to your regimen. Raw garlic, turmeric, Black-Walnut tincture, cloves, are some good choices.
If you want to speed up the healing process, you can do high water enemas, followed by kefir retention enemas. This in my experience has given the most dramatic results in fighting the candida and parasites in the colon.
All that can seem a bit overwhelming at first for someone that is not used to alternative medicine, but those things have healed thousands of people from terminal diseases. I have no doubt that you too will soon be healthy.
Good luck!
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Re: Extremely Ill after sex Blistering Fate
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507Do not eat raw veggies, instead juice them (lots of them!) and if you want to eat them cooked, as the other poster commented even the usual juicer its better than nothing. Raw veggies are hard to digest, you will realise when it comes out the other end (thats how I did... uhh.
Do NOT follow the anticandida diet or your underweight issues will either worse or stay the same. Eat whole grains, organic grass feed meat from time to time, organic chicken, turkey, eggs, soft nuts such as walnuts, fruits like starwberries are packed with antioxidants and antinflammatory compounds for a little treat, AVOID milk and gluten. I mean foods like traditional spanish dishes:
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Aim for a HIGH CALORIE diet, believe me. I sticked to an anticandida diet and went to hysterical and frightened days of weighting 123 lbs, or 56 kgs with 5,9 feet tall. Look for my posts in curezone and you will see it. One day I couldnt walk more than 20 minutes and had to sit down as my parents much older than me continued. Today, thanks to a balanced, high calorie, super healthy diet, I weight 154 lbs and I have energy to workout a little, im getting muscular and swollen (what society brainwashed me to want lol). I still have eczema, smelly feet, lots of itchy dandruff,insomnia, unrefreshing sleep, and a white coated tongue (and twenty symptoms more) but the anticandida diet its a dangerous scam, especially if you are only doing the diet without a real agressive approach better directed by a professional.
http://www.whfoods.com/foodstoc.php
Very good reference for dieting. juicing asparagus its like drinking Glutathione!
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- Re: Extremely Ill after sex lakshmi7
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507Hi,
I feel very bad about everything you described. I hope you get better.
You sound like you are severely overwhelmed with toxicities in the body and severely malnourished.
Find a Naturopathic Doctor, or an Ayurveda, or TCM practitioner to guide you in the process of recovery. In the state that you are now and considering your young age, it's a risk to do it on your own before months of research.
Your main focus is to nourish and to detoxify.
Since your digestive tract is in mess currently and you are not digesting your food, you are in no shape for raw veggies, beans, whole grains, nuts or even psyllium husks, they may worsen your digestion further due to high amount of fiber and phytates. Gluten, Sugar and dairy are even out of the question, they are very heavy for digestion even in healthy pople and impede detox.
To nourish start sipping bone broth, like half a cup every hour. Buy a whole ORGANIC chicken, or whatever meat with bone you want, put in large pot, bring to boil and simmer for about 6 hours until meat falls off the bone. Drink the broth and you can eat that meat as well in small portions.
You may add detoxifying spices into your broth: cayenne, black pepper, ginger, oregano, thyme, sage, they should take care of your candida as well.
Learn about GAPS diet protocol. It the only diet(or variations of it) currently researched that can actually work on failed digestion.
Juice organic veggies daily, especially beets (already mentioned here), carrots, celery, and also apple and drink it to start detox.
Consider coffee enemas. ORGANIC coffee only, otherwise your anxiety will be worse. Non-organic coffee has tons of additives. coffee enemas are great for colon detox and for liver detox as well. You may add beet juice to coffee enemas.
But please, note if you use it right after juicing it can constrict or spasm blood vessels. You have to leave beet juice for a couple hours at room temperature and then it is good to go.
Switch to organic foods as much as you can.
You really need to balance detox (juicing, Colon Cleanse and liver cleanse) and nourishment. Too much detox with no nourishment will make you weaker, too much nourishment will impede your detox.
Find out your Ayurvedic typing (lots of tests online). From what I read, you sound like a toxic Kapha, toxic Pitta condition with severe Vata issues, like anxiety. But to be sure, complete a test online and read about dieatary and life-style changes recommendations according to your type.
Consider supplementing B-vitamins, cod liver oil, Magnesium Malate, Potassium chelate, and iodine. Read about them.
Sex might have disrupted your flora, I agree with other comment. Extreme fatigue about it may also mean you just wasted your energy (which is already low), since sex requires our precious life energy.
Do what really matters now: nourish and detox, and read, read, read all you can about it.
Get as much family and friends, as well as forums support as you can.
If you are still on birth control, then it is surely not making you healthier. Birth control for Acne is like using guillotine for headache. Birth control messes up your gut flora, your vaginal flora causing yeast infections and disrupts your natural hormonal balance, mineral balance, etc. It is awfully taxing for every system in your body.
Acne is a sign of toxic blood and can be treated successfully with colon cleanse, then liver cleanse and then use of alterative herbs, like burdock, dandelion and yellow dock roots, manjista, neem, guduchi and diet rich in green juices and beet roots.
Dark circles under eyes, insomnia, fatigue, hypoglycemia and constipation may indicate very serious potassium deficiency! read about it.
Boil organic prunes and apricots and drink that water and eat softened boiled fruits in small amounts, that should take care of your constipation and give you some potassium.
I agree with another comment here about herbal laxatives. Senna and Cascara Sagrada can be good as temporary measures.
Sorry, if I sound pushy, I just see no point in too much chivalry when you need help when you are in such a bad shape currently.
Hope this helps. Take care.
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507All the advice below is very good in my opinion. Try to have a few raw veggies, because in the raw they have good enzymes, but the others are right it may be too much and you may need to microwave or juice them.
Another program for general health is nutritional balancing. It works by rebuilding the mineral levels in your body. Definitely won't replace the candida protocol, but it could be useful along with it. Good luck, I went through a lot of the same stuff in high school - and now I am in college and about 75% better. It's gonna take time, and its going to be really challenging, but you can come back from this.Advertisement
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- Re: Extremely Ill after sex natway
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507Everyone's given you good advice, but the best advice is definitely from Blistering Fate; eating a high calorie diet.
It's because your diet is coming up short on calories, which is so common in girls your age in our male dominated world, unfortunately and this problem affects guys too more than people probably realize. But now you know the problem, so now you know the solution, you simply have to start eating more.
Here's a great article that Starbell just posted that is a must read for you and a lot of other people on these boards:
Adrenal Fatigue as a Cover for Starvation
http://gokaleo.com/2013/01/25/adrenal-fatigue-as-a-cover-for-starvation/
If you're worried how to eat more without gaining unnecessary weight, I've been studying diets a lot that last few months and speaking from experience with a diet where I eat tons without gaining more than what my body naturally wants is a high-carb/low-fat diet.
Popular high-carb/low-fat diets to look into:
80-10-10
Starch Solution
Engine 2 diet
Eat More, Weigh Less
Just make sure you do eat a lot more on these diets because since they are a lot lower in fat and animal products, they are a lot less in calories per the same volume, so you have to eat quite a bit more to get the same amount of calories as you would in an average diet and this can be difficult with people who've had eating disorders who have been conditioned to eat smaller meals all the time.
I recommend using apps like http://cronometer.com
to be sure you're getting enough calories per day and not starving yourself with whatever diet you're on.
WHO's definition of starvation:
Females = anything less than 1,800 cal per day
Males = anything less than 2,100 cal per day
30bananasaday.com's recommended calorie minimums on a high-carb/low-fat diet:
Females = at least 2,500 cal per day
Males = at least 3,000 cal per day
- Re: Extremely Ill after sex nyckid10
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507I am now realizing that this issue is more common than I thought. I honestly thought I was cursed and the only one. I also had problems since middle school/high school, and it got really bad in college when I developed really bad leaky gut/candida/acne/anxiety.
I currently got rid of the candida/leaky gut/ parasites but am not totally drained out because of what I was putting my body through during all of that detox! I am currently dealing with severe adrenal exhaustion. Maybe I can help you with some things that I learned and did to get better, and tell you what to avoid. I sent you a PM.Advertisement
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- Re: Extremely Ill after sex MrCuddly
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507Have you lived in the same home while you've had all these problems? If so you might seriously consider testing for molds, fungus, or other toxic conditions that might be in your house/apartment, etc.
I knew a young girl who had some of the problems you describe and she knew it was from black mold that was in her house but she couldn't afford to move - which was a sad situation. Just a thought..- Re: Extremely Ill after sex Marie64
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This is a reply to # 2,045,667Hi Randomgirl,
So sorry for what you are going through. What test have you had done to see your cortisol level?
Low cortisol can mess up your digestion, your harmones and feeling very ill after sex.
Do you know if you suffer low aldesterone to ? COntrols sodium and potassium levels. Low sodium can cause lots of issues too.
I am on hydrocortisone, I was diagnosed with Auto Immune Addison's disease.
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This is a reply to # 2,045,684http://undergroundwellness.com/.
This guy Sean is amazing.. Great information. Pease send him this story on your health
http://undergroundwellness.com/how-to-make-beef-bone-broth/.
http://bonesandhormones.com/fdn/.
Reed Davis to knows hs stuff tell him your story him and Sean work together alot
https://www.google.com/search?q=underground+wellness+podcast&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-...
Sometimes Listening is better than reading. You can also find these podcasts on YouTube undergroundwellness
I send you these links To save time of typing all this information you can take what you want to get rid of the rest.
If your digestive system is broken or a train rack your whole body will be a mess...
Also consider vitamin and mineral deficiencies Like D3 you can take up to 10,000 IUB daily magnesium like 2000 mg daily make sure its a chelated form that way it don't give you diarrhea which in your case for my case is not a bad thing but you could dehydrate yourself which could add two more illness Maybe consider a liquid vitamin B12 that you put under your tong an iron test and taking iron tablets is not the best way they tend to constipate alternatives to getting your ferritin levels higher. Would be to choose dark green leafy Veggie Juice them or cook them do not eat them raw very very hard to digest. Red meat , Oregon meat yes I know it sounds yucky like liver. Low iron can cause a lot of your systems , I to myself am experiencing some low low levels of iron and my supplement I take is found at this link http://hemoplex.ca/
I recommend Liquid That way your digestive system does not have to break down any of the Unnecessary. Just eat real food always organic or grass feed, No dairy.. Gluten or grains, Eat saturated fats they are extremely healthy for you,,,, Animal fat is very good for you! Drs. do not know Jack crap!! Contact Reed Davis or Sean and talk to them their on facebook and i believe sean has a phone number. please dont be afraid to tell them everything, as sick as you are random girl they will know where to start you. They will get to the root f the problem The more my digestive system is messed up the more anxiety my body feels panicked Attacks and all. I don't sleep I don't have energy also check your hormone levels These are extremely important levels to have balance Being this sick do you even have a period At this time? Please do not rely on our modern doctors to heal you because they will just make you sicker... If it grows out of the ground or hang on a tree make sure it's organic because if there not the others are way to Toxic with pesticide. Check out the world according to Monsanto Check out the documentary of food Inc. Our doctors work for Monsanto, Monsanto is our government the government that are killing us. Educate yourself my dear you will thank yourself For doing so. Also if you go to YouTube check out the bitter truth about Sugar by Dr. lust. Very eye-opening Along with the documentary food inc... God gave us the food to eat To Nourish us and to heal us! and man has made chemicals to make money to make us sick! :) I sure hope that all of your replies and information is helpful and that you feel better God doesn't want tosee us sick, eat like your grandmother used to eat when she was a child god bless you. I will put you on my pray list I'm box me if you feel the need toAdvertisement
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507look into the gaps diet. looks like you have gut dysbiosis and repairing your gut will improve your overall health. Try and seek the help of a certified gaps practitioner.
- Re: Extremely Ill after sex overtheedge
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This is a reply to # 2,050,666I had severe constipation for a good two-three years with slight constipation for about 5 years before that; without an enema I would have maybe two bowel movements worth per month. My bowel movements all came out undigested and covered in mucous.
There were many doctors I tried, none of them did anything beyond suggesting over the counter laxatives. I tired a few dozen different treatments before a homeopathic doctor gave me a bottle of Digestive Enzymes and Betain HCL(Hydro-chloride)
The recommendation was that the enzymes/betain be taken with every meal to which I complied, skip ahead something like one-three weeks and behold my bowels started showing improvements like no other treatment had shown
Over the next few months my bowels started functioning better and better, with them my overall health improved incredibly. After a few months of taking these pills as recommended the bowel movements came every day-every other day with each movement being gigantic
My anxiety and psychotic paranoia went away over the course of a year, chronic fatigue and brain fog significantly reduced until I became able to work a job again.
I still am ill but nothing compared to how sick I was two years ago; these two pills with food brought me back from a nightmare.
I have tried many different kinds of Betain HCL/Digestive Enzymes and have never run across a kind that didn't work. As such I look to buy the greatest amount of pills for the lowest cost which currently are:
http://www.amazon.com/Betaine-Hydrochloride-Pepsin-600mg-Tablets/dp/B00068IY0...
http://www.amazon.com/Source-Naturals-Essential-Enzymes-Capsules/dp/B000GFSVP...
As I mentioned earlier enemas can be a lifesaver if your desperate for a bowel movement and might be able to give you results faster
When I needed one I bought something like this if this isn't the exact same one:
http://www.amazon.com/Disposable-Enema-Bag-Set-Economy/dp/B000VSV460/ref=sr_1...
I never tried another enema model so I can't tell you if the others would be better or worse.
Like you I had severe trouble sleeping, I might be the only one who would advise this on curezone but I went to a psychiatrist to get sleeping medications. I ended up on trazodone, gets me to sleep every night
I have been incredibly exhausted from a long few weeks of work so these past two days I took a good 200 miligrams of trazodone to get to sleep then, upon waking up 10 hours later, I took another 200 miligrams. I feel great whenever I get a good 13-14 hours worth of sleep
Hope it helps
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This is a reply to # 2,045,507You symptoms are very similar to mine. I finally found a naturopathic doctor that took my stool sample and sent it away to The Great Smokies Diagnostic Lab and found I was infested with three different types of amoebas.Used metronidazole and cured the problems.
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Sorry to hear about your health problems.
If you can afford it, I would recommend getting checked out by an alternative doctor (naturopath, homeopath, whatever.) Western-trained doctors do not know how to treat body system issues very well. And it sounds like you have a lot of them.
If you can't do that, get yourself a blender and start making yourself smoothies. Stop drinking soda, stay away from sugar, eat more salads, and try not to eat too may carbs. Get some exercise, doesn't have to be anything fancy. Walking 30 minutes a day will do.
Read about Edgar Cayce . Read abour Dr. Schultze.
With a proper diet and exercise your body can heal itself. You can feel better. Believe it.
good luck !
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