I went back and read more of your post and you are in deep trouble with this man. You mentioned that you were diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, etc., and that you’re now agoraphobic. Do you have any ideas of where the PTSD is rooted? NO NEED TO ANSWER on this forum - just sit and contemplate this in your own time. What has happened is that the situation that you married into sounds as if it is a toxic and triggering environment, and this man is playing you against yourself. He is aware of your issues and vulnerabilities because you trusted him and told him. Now, he’s using those vu ...
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First of all, I could not get through your volumes of concerns. It's too long for one post, and this tells me a couple of very important facts about your situation. You are very upset, very afraid, and working like a fiend to keep this ill-fated marriage together. This also tells me that you would benefit from some individual counseling therapy and, perhaps, separate from your spouse while you sort some of this out for yourself.  What he does, what his family does, what his friends do.....you do not have control over any of this.  You only have control over your own ch ...
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I have been with my husband for 4 years. We got married at City Hall 2 years ago and had the big party last year. At first, we clicked because we thought we really shared the same values and vision for the future. We used to joke and brag about never fighting for the first year we spent together. We moved from Europe to the West Coast really quickly, we traveled a lot, supported each other in our career growth. We were really making each other better. I was very career driven and an overachiever before I met him, A bit naive and idealist also. I grew up with Disney movies and was alway ...
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My wife is 53 and uses estrogen cream to combat menopausal hot flashes. How long after application should I stop being concerned about the transfer of said estrogen from her skin to mine? About 15 minutes after she applies it? Some number of hours post-application? The next morning? Not until after she showers or washes it off? She seems to believe #1 is the right answer, claiming that it is rapidly absorbed and not a threat after that. However my paranoia prevails. My question has largely to do with morning sex. She puts the stuff alternate ...
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Markus, I get MUCH better prices for Generic v1agra from the dealers I usually use, and they take credit cards, too. Also no Rx.. I order 300 pills at a time to get the best price, then keep them sealed in plastic bags & located in the fridge. I suggest starting with 25MG. Generic v1agra (Sildenafil) is extremely powerful and 100mg is overdose for many. My favorite dealers: http://fastxpills.com/search/?q=v1agra Others I have used with no problems: http://canadianmeds24h.com/index.php?route=catalog/Erectile_Dysfunction http://rxcanada365.com/category/Erectile+Dysfunction https ...
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Here Cenforce is not the cheapest, but accept credit cards   [End]
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Cenforce is Sildenafil Citrate which is a Generic version of v1agra. So of course it works for erectile dysfunction. It is also sold by many dealers. Grizz   [End]
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Cenforce is also majorly used for the erectile dysfunction or impotence in men. This product improves the blood flow to your penis and need to be taken about one hour before sex for best usage.   [End]
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Thanks for the tip. GenericEPharmacy does indeed have great prices for Generic v1agra. I will try placing an order today to see if they are a reliable dealer. Oh, Oh, I can’t do business with them because they won’t accept credit cards. NO WAY do I do business with E-Checks or cash. I do not have Dummy written over my forehead. Who can you recommend that does credit cards? Grizz   [End]
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I don’t know anything about your dealer, so i can’t say anything. I have had great experiences with these dealers: My Canada Sources routinely sell 20mg Sildenafil Citrate (v1agra) for 50 cents or less per pill and no prescription. The dealers I have used over the past few years include: - allrxsales - fastxpills - canadianmeds24hr - securemarketpill - best247chemist None require an Rx. There are many more Canada dealers listed that I have not used yet, so do shop around for the best price on Sildenafil Citrate (Generic for v1agra) We just discovered this dealer which has 5 ...
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Hi, I noticed your post and am actually researching how to get my meds from an online source because lately my insurance has changed so that ED drugs no longer are covered because they fall in the ”non-essential” category. (they used to be tier 3 for me). I’m a type 2 diabetic and don’t have much left after bills and costs of meds each month and am looking for a source where I can just buy like 3-4 pills only. Been looking for online pharmacies and think I found some decent reviews http://phrmreviews.com/r/healthmartindia-com-review-traditional-approach/ but am a little hesitant to jump in ...
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I just found out from my neighbor who tried to get a prescription filled for v1agra at Walmart, where they want $42 per Pill, and $420 for a pack of 10 pills ! This is INSANE, Legal Theft, Grand Larceny .... especially since v1agra went off patent in 2011, and generics ( Sildenafil Citrate) are now available everywhere. https://www.accessrx.com/blog/erectile-dysfunction/v1agra/cost-of-buying-v1agra-at-cvs-walgreens-and-walmart-pharmacy/ My Canada Sources routinely sell 20mg Sildenafil Citrate (v1agra) for 50 cents or less per pill and no prescription. The dealers I have used over th ...
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Don’t use anything artificial now a days there are many sex supplements that helps you the more to please your partner on bed . you can use any one of them that is natural having no side effects , If i suggest you then you can take Bullet Ayurvedic which is totally natural to use .   [End]
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Very interesting device ! Thanks for the tip. Their website does not answer basic questions: http://www.rxsleeve.com/access/index.php?route=product/category&path=88 Are you able to reach ogasm using this sleeve? It looks like it blocks most sensation to a man’s penis. Is that correct? How are you able to reach ogasm using this device? It appears to be for the woman’s pleasure only. How do you get your ogasms? It looks like a strap on dildo commonly used by lesbians. Is this correct? http://www.rxsleeve.com/access/Accessories/Harness-Kit/harness,%20dildo Have you tried v ...
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Can I please my partner and myself using a Penis sleeve? I am not a good candidate for additional medication. I believe my soft erections are making me self-conscious. I see products offering assistance is with a device that is place over the genitals. Not a truly a solution for my issue, however, I think the mental satisfaction of being able to become intimate with my wife... may help. I thought this RXSleeve device may help me reduce my stress. My wife said, yes, she is willing. this is exiting to hear.. I am worried how i would feel. After more thought, I went ahead… 5 month ...
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You act like a teenager confronted with a first date here...you’re a grown married man, guy, act like an adult. You’re treading on dangerous ground here, and you know it. You know exactly what you’re doing. Lesbians are forbidden fruit and you’re making smalltalk here on Curezone in hopes that some of us will green light you to screw the lesbian’s lights out, sow your wild oats, then go back to wifey. Not this guy...you gotta know that you are on the road to screwing this lesbian silly. Continue on, it will happen. I find that HOMOsexuals of both kinds do not respect hetero marriage ...
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I can imagine your emotionally tight situation now. Have you given yourself time to consider what might be? what might happened when your wife discover about this? what will be your friends reaction when she knows this? what if she don’t like you as you want it to be? what if she does, then what? If there is something missing with your relationship with your wife, don’t search it outside your home instead take an active effort to rekindle or solve the problem within the home.This site http://www.getyourexbackeasy.net really help me a lot when i have been going through tough times in my rel ...
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You’re walking a dangerous path, friend. You might find it difficult listening to advice when there’s a part of you that wants to do what you know to be wrong. Spend more time with your wife and less with your female friend, else you might find yourself in a more compromising position and a lot of emotional pain to follow. I read in the previous post about quitting your job. That might be a good idea. Or, at least, arranging your schedule so that you see less of your friend. Maybe go on a vacation or some weekend dates with your wife. Do what you can to get your mind off this fri ...
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You need to stop living in a fantasy life and start living in reality. The first and most important reality is that you are married and made a committment to your wife and the mother of your children. So many people forget what it means to be committed to another human being when they get married and it’s so frustrating to read stuff like this. If you truly care about your wife and want to have a life with her, then I think the best thing you can do is cut off your ”friendship” with your lesbian friend. You have no future with her and being with her day in and day out is only going to ...
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BlueRose is spot-on about this situation. My views on ”marriage” and commitment have been altered over the past couple of years, but that’s due to my personal experiences. The thing about ”marriage” is that, in the U.S., it’s a binding, contractual agreement - when a marriage ends, it’s a very, very expensive and traumatic experience and hinges solely upon ”equitable distribution of assets.” Having typed that, the question is whether or not you feel love for your wife and mother of your children? If you honestly love your wife, then BlueRose suggested that you speak openly and ho ...
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From what you’ve written, I gather that you have not told this woman about your feelings. If so, be sure to keep it that way. I’m guessing that with 2 kids under the age of 2 (twins?), that your home life revolves around the daily care of the kids. No doubt, you and your wife either can’t or won’t make some time for just the two of you. Thus, it’s easy for you, once you’re at work, to spend time chatting with this woman. Basically, you’re getting from her (adult one on one time) that you are not getting from your wife. If I’m right, it’s up to you to take the first step and make ...
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I am torn up about this and unsure of what to do to move past how I feel. I am a happily married man with two young kids under the age of 2. Earlier this year I started getting close to a female colleague of mine at work. I always thought she was nice and a good friend, but never much more than that. By pure chance earlier this year, we ended up going out on our lunch break alone, rather than with other colleagues. I used to always go in a group, but there were a couple of people she disliked in that group so she usually went to lunch alone. We found out we had a lot to talk about a ...
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Real facts shared nicely.   [End]
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I met my husband on eHarmony. True story.   [End]
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Thank you so much for sharing this. This really helps me as I am 24 years old and in search for a someone.   [End]
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not advertising site... this is marriage agencies directory. Search your local listing. If this help you, leave me a smile !!! marriage agencies marriage agency   [End]
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Hi Mountain Bisket, I am a recovered codependent. I never believed in God or any other Higher Power until I found that my problems were beyond my human control. I used to believe that I controlled everything but I was forced to learn otherwise. I am not AT ALL religious...but I am very spiritual. They are two completely different things. I just wrote this blog article and would like you to read it. It’s called ”Having Faith In An Uncertain World” http://www.randigfine.com. When you go to my website, you will also see info about my new memoir Fine...ly: My Story of Hope, Lov ...
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Check in Emotional Freedom Technique.. Good luck.. Be blessed, Raider   [End]
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Your post leaves a lot of unanswered questions.  Your issues are fear, control, and standing up for yourself.  So I assume that with all this you avoid conflict and confrontation at all costs.  In a relationship of 13 years, no matter how good it is, these factors have to affect the relationship in one way or another.  And the question comes to mind, do you consider it a good relationship because you always put yourself second or last? The thing is, the way we were raised and the impressions made upon us in childhood follow us throughout the rest of our lives. H ...
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I have a brother in recovery who is now a counselor and believes I need help with codependency. I am not sure why exactly. I know our upbringing left us damaged and fearful but I’m in a good relationship and have been for 13 years. My issues are of fear, control and standing up for myself. Is this the direction I should be taking or are there other suggestions? I do NOT want to be involved in any church based recovery programs like alanon as I’m not a religious person nor do i believe in a higher power. It comes from within. Help?   [End]
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Wow! Thanks so much for that! I almost peed! It is a wonderful thing to see her laughing like that and I loved the Princess Bride reference.   [End]
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Tooooo Funny.   [End]
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This looks like the beginnings of a great, happy marriage, just judging by the looks of 2 people who don’t take themselves too seriously. I love this! I can relate to inability to stop laughing!! [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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I think she’s ”pure bimbo” and woke up to find herself in this situation.   [End]
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i can multi-task so don’t worry you’re pretty little head about ’ol mccainster’s time management. income still rolls in every day, payroll’s get paid, everybody’s happy. tiger is worldwide news...i comment on worldwide newsmakers. it’s like telling peyton manning not to throw touchdown passes. or hillary clinton to quit wearing pantsuits. hey, it’s what we do!   [End]
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You’re caring and obsessing on this Tiger thing too much dude. Something missing in your own life to get caught up in celebrity drama?   [End]
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a guy’s penis will single-handedly, by its design, get him in trouble more times than not. and the majority of the time...he loses great amounts of wealth. you guys climbing the ladder of success out there...listen to my wisdom. forget you got a penis. it will all work out if you gain some ”penis amnesia”. dont’ become a monk or anything. date...get laid...keep a lid on how much you make, and don’t marry until you’re well-seasoned. Getting laid when you’ve got a fat wallet can get you broke, my friend. tiger’s big problem was that during his growing up years he didn’t get laid en ...
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I hear meditation is great for a lot of things. I wanted to start doing this but I never get around to it. Sucks! I had a little book on it but I don’t know what I did with it.   [End]
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Gosh, I miss my husband like you wouldn’t believe. We did so many things together and I miss what we (he and i) had. I believe we will get back together but it will take time. I know he misses me. You know, when you’ve been with someone for soooo long you know what they are feeling without them even having to say a word. I’ve let him know that I miss him. So we shall see! I will have to wait. I hope things go well with you and your spouse. Peace! P.S.: WISH US LUCK!   [End]
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I feel this way too, that I tend to not meditate regularly, and I sort of feel like I do this on purpose so that I do not make too much progress all at once. This is not necessarily a purposeful choice that I make, but I feel like my understanding has grown so much in such a short period of time, that my body and my mind need time to process and assimilate all of the changes that are taking place. I just kind of go with my feeling, when I feel like meditating, I meditate. My main feeling lately is that I want to be surrounded by nature all the time. I want to be at one with the earth ...
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is always the practitioner Ignore yourself and your opinions about yourself and continue   [End]
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What makes a good marriage? Me and my husband. :)   [End]
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What Makes for a Good Marriage? - A Series of Class Acts • Living by our highest standards – this needs no explanation. The higest standards of conduct are found in the marriage vows we recited in front of hundreds of witnesses. Loyalty and fidelity are commodities not to be taken lightly. They form the foundation of a good marriage. Just because you go through a boring phase in your relationship doesn’t mean you can go around and carry on extra-marital affairs; • Maintaining dignity and grace under pressure – marriage is not a walk in the park – not by a long shot. There will be pro ...
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Hi! Totally agree.... What type of meditation do you do? I tend to start and stop as soon as I´m ”making progress” or think I am!! Sort of like boycotting oneself. Would like to know how to break this cycle and am sure meditation in a continuous way would help put me back on the track. Best wishes.   [End]
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As God’s beloved, I cherish each moment of intimacy (in-to-me­see) with my Divine Partner. I realize that I can receive my lover’s affection any time I desire through the practice of meditation.   [End]
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What makes a good marriage? Research by psychologist John Gottman found that it is important to have what he calls the Magic Ratio of 5 positive interactions for each negative one. So, let’s talk now about how couples behave with one another in a sucessful marriage. Successful couples all do the following things: Show Interest in one another. In a good marriage, when their partner is speaking, whether arguing or not, they are obviously interested in what the other is saying. Their minds are not wandering, thinking up the next arguing point, or watching TV. They are paying attentio ...
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I guess there are no good marriages...this place is a ghost town, lol. Just kidding, so many forums so little time I guess. Well I have only been married once and so has my husband and our marriage is still managing very nicely. We hit one bump, so far and it was a doozie! Took us nearly 3 yrs to come to terms with things, but we did it! It was his screw up not mine but we both had to suffer, that’s the way it goes in marriage. It’s good to know that I don’t ever have to suffer alone though, I made a good choice to stay with my husband, but it was the hardest choice of my lif ...
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The purpose of this forum is to give examples of good marriages. We have relationship forum where 99% of messages are about relationship problems ... this forum is suppose to be an opposite forum to the relationship forum ... here, we need examples of marriages where things function the way it should be ... on order to learn from positive examples .... If you think that your marriage is a good marriage, please share with us your personal experience. If you know people who you think have a good marriage ... please share here that example .... tell us more about their marriage and w ...
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