yeah, she is still around. she's getting up there in age, though. she was ill a while back, but i guess she is fine now.
it seems to me that you are picking the wrong women. yeah, if you don't want to save the relationship, definitely no program would work. i used it on two people who were not worth using it on. it did work, but they capitalized on it and i was even more controlled, lol. if you are going to invest in a relationship, the person must be worthy of your time effort and devotion.
so, i guess she is not interested in making it better either, right? was it ever good? the reason i was trying to help is because you were saying what do you girls want and that you cannot figure us out. but, it sounds like you already have her figured out, if you know what i mean.