I am inspirored by your love and devotion to your husband and family. Your husband must be a good man and he is fortunate that he has your support to help him change. We can change our lives by becoming aware of our unity with an infinite God and the infinite possibilities that await us, but first, every new stage in life requires us to part from the previous one. In this case focusing the mind on higher things. Childhood gives rise to youth as it develops into adulthood. After a temporary stay our minds expand doing away with ignorance in order to approach God where the only medium between our minds and God's pure consciousness is our thoughts. As we bring ourselves to a greater consciousness, positive life affirming beliefs are accepted and negative thoughts and problems disappear as we express more love, peace, joy, wisdom and harmony with everything that flows unceasingly from God, but many hesitate to venture into the unknown. They tend to cling to the familiar in life, even if they are not happy. Talk to your husband and ask him how he feels after his experiences. Do not condemn, but empower him to leave the experience if it is not rewarding.
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