"Frankly 77203, what really surprises me is that in the Relationship forum I have gone as far as praising your posts for their sensible and clear headed perspective. You seem to have abandoned .........."
This is where I stop reading these kind of "answers"
Notice that my opinions are mine, and have nothing to do with you personaly.
Every time I see a sentence starting with "You" I know that person has an axe to grind... not an opinion to share.