Re: Christian advice for helping my husband with p 0 r n.

77203,

Did you ever notice that you continuously rationalize (justify your own agenda)?

Whatever your secret agenda is (critical controversy maybe?), you wouldn't have to try so hard, or at all, if it was just. However, everything is not all about you.
This thread is about the concerns of the original poster (wife's agenda, remember?).
Why should the wife feel guilty or ashamed for what the husband does?

"He wouldn't be doing it in secrecy if you were accepting of him, would he?".

The wife has nothing to feel guilty about, she didn't hold a gun to his head and force him to do anything. Realizing this is called "reality". The "critical tone" that you FELT in her text was of your own choosing and I wouldn't imagine the Creator of the universe EVER having any opinion at all about "sexy pictures". She didn't force him to make the "big" ['accidental'?] MISTAKE, he made the decision to look at p 0 r n all by himself (notice the guilty party made this "MISTAKE").

I realize God never made a command that we shouldn't attack other people, He decided to leave that up to each one of us. TRUE Christianity is not about COMMANDS, it's about the agenda of your heart...and the reason you keep that agenda SECRET (hiding in darkness) is so you don't have to admit to having it (but God brings everything into the light and shows it for what it really is (he reveals [creates] evil when there was thought to be none, Isaiah 45:7, KJV).


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