Hey you, well yall will never excape the virus, it will live with you forever, but you and your bf can get treated for it up to the point where you are immuned to it, and it won't have any effect on either of you, I too have it and i am only 17. I am so scared b/c I want to get married and have kids in the future, but the man I want to marry I've already had sex with him and I don't want to tell him that he might have it too, so all I can do is pray on it and hope that he doesn't have it to reinfect me back with it, but all I can say is that the only 100% cure is God, he never fails, even when you do. So pray!!