Re: I have an odd erection problem, Can you help?
Of all the replies, I like this one best.
I was just wondering if this does not sound a lot like damage to the penis from circumscision. Are you cut, my friend?
I am not suggesting you have PE [premature ejaculation] but just that maybe your problem is also from circumscision damage. Is the 'pre-ejc' fluid different than regular ejaculation fluid [with that kinda creamy look]?
I have dealth with PE for many years, and I think that, in my case anyways, it was that the extra-sensitive head would have me ejaculating within a few strokes [which happens to be good for keeping the genetic line going too, maybe its hereditary]. What happens is that the unprotected penis head is dangling around in my pants and making me horny, and getting scraped and so on too - it is tough skin ya, but when rubbed by cloth all day it gets sensitive. Does that make any sense at all? Do intact men feel their penis head getting rubbed in their underwear?
I have also had the softening problem, but it went away with a steady partner [a woman, yes]. For me, it was emotional. You know, men, as a group, have not yet admitted that it is a very big insecurity to enter a women, we are trained to act like we think it is nothing, like thats what we do best, and allways are ready, and that f**king strangers is where we do our best work... IT AIN'T SO!!!! [not for every man at least. We need to do what women did with "womens lib" and get out from under that stupid macho belief.
good luck buddy