Your information is extremely helpful, thank you very much!
I considered myself to not have a premature ejaculation problem because I have a hell of a time coming with a woman and the pre ejaculation fluid is a totally involuntary action. But, am I wrong? Is it essentially then, the same problem?
You mentioned excessive self-gratification could be a cause, well, since about age 12... I spank the monkeyd 1-4 times a day or more. In addition, I did not do it the normal way. It's hard to describe but I massaged myself to cllmax not knowing the 'normal' way to do it. I massaged the underside of my penis while lying on my stomach. I used a lot of pressure and when I cllmaxed it felt best to really push hard, literally putting all my weight into it, enjoying a long cllmax. A few years later , I would do the same technique but massaging the front side of the penis. This technique however required me to be soft. So I would try to lose my erection to engage in this action and do it a few times a day.
In addition, I would put so much physical pressure on my penis during cllmax that semen would not come out. In fact, It scared the hell out of me when I 'slipped' one time and all this semen came out. I never saw it before. Is there any particular damage my techniques of playing with yourself, spanking the monkey did? (noting the fact I was doing this 1-4 times a day)
This may explain why I've always had problems since I first tried to have real sex at age 20. Plus I was used to extreme pressure and force when playing with yourself, spanking the monkey, and intercourse or receiving oral is a far different physical motion. I originally thought that my odd playing with yourself, spanking the monkey techniques killed the nerves in my penis.ÖÖ
Other notes, the few times I actually have come inside a women there would be pain At around age 27 I was treated for an enlarged prostate. I am now 40. My prostate tested fine a couple years ago.
I do not have any other urinary problems at this time.
So, as I understand it I need to nourish and make my prostate healthy, maybe trying bee pollen, saw pawmetto/pygeum and exercise the PC muscle regularly. I can also try endurmax to help with premature ejaculation/pre ejaculation fluid.
Thank you for your help. As you can see itís a concern of mine for many years. A lot of sex drive I could have used with a partner wasted!