I did read it but it's a bit more complicated than you think. I can't exactly avoid dating because I am currently living with my boyfriend and I don't have any family that I could live with. It was a nice idea that you mentioned about joining non profit organizations to feel good but in all reality I don't have transportation right now and there is no public transportation on the mountain where I live. Plus it isn't like I have the money for transportation, I don't even have a job right now. Other than that I dont really think I could afford to devote a lot of my time to something without getting paid for it. If I had transportation I would have a job right now, the transportation issue is the only reason I don't have one. I still havent even been able to do some of the cleanses that I would like to do. Anyway, despite the things that I found to be somewhat impossible for me to do I did find a good piece of advice in what you wrote, the part about loving myself... I suppose I need to work on that. Thanks for caring.