Granted when the question was first asked it showed a complete lack of diplomacy or sensitivity, but on the second post this person goes on to thatnk thomas who answered without anger, and she adds that she knows more now than when she first asked the question!!
C'mon people, doesn't that say anything to anyone??? Want to continue beating a dead horse?
Changing the status quo about anything is no easy endeavor, no matter what subject matter we are dealing with. Check with history, but changes do come. That's just the way human nature is, and there's no isolated subject. If people don't rise above their circumstances, then they'll never be able to draw the sympathy or understanding they seek, no matter how well deserved.