"Personally I get a little angry with all these people who look and expect peoples acceptance."
fyi - not exactly a warm invite to engage in dialog - if you'dve just asked the question you wanted answered w/o that statement perhaps you would have gotten more explanatory responses. to my 'ears' it sounded judgemental & thus my response.
perhaps w/o the benefit of body language & tone of voice i misunderstood the intention of your post....