this is a debate not a conversion to your thinking.
Yes. No one's going to change anyone's thinking, but you are supposed to understand everyone's way of thinking.
This thread was not to chage your defenition of selfish, or change your mind on abortion, it is just here to render the argument of "abortion is selfish" useless, which I hope you see it has. And if not there is no use debating with you because you don't try to see other's views and philosophies except your own.