WOW! This is exactly what I am going thru right now. My 18 year old daughter moved out of the house in early Dec. and I cant seem to get a grasp on the whole situation. She calls all of her friends and lives with her b/f and his mom. But since she has been gone she doesn't even call here, unless she needs clothing or something. I am so distraught behind the whole thing that I dont know what to do. I have been into arguements and have been disrespected by her b/f on two occasions. I am not making excuses, but I am a single parent, and it is hard trying to deal with this thing by myself, (not to mention that I am having serious relationship issues too)I have 2 other children and they seem to be fine, but I cant help but to think that the same thing will happen with them and I will be all alone. Because of the issues, I take to drinking chardonnay-----daily and I know thats not the thing-but I wont step out of the way to let a healing process begin, because its hitting me in the face all at one time (overload), not one person understands and I am scared. Anymore advice out there? I gotta get it together and I dont know how.