I will never suggest to go..
hi,
I am sorry for being blunt. It may break your heart but when you see reality, this relation shows you so much red flags already.
I can see your previous messages and i can see that you are also trying to make yourself understand. You can make yourself understand and people can tell you exactly what you want to LISTEN, But if you see it in reality you will know that it is not going to be a really GOOD realationship.
Whenever there are so much differences in "energies" (physcical or mental) then it always gives problem. if you think carefully and you really love him then you will never try to tie him. You are ofcouese mature than him and you should understand about it's reality. He may cry, shout or compell you to make it possible but you should not let this happend.
Sit and relax and think about it carefully rather than making yourself understand by the exapmle of others.
You both will blok each other's energy and possiblities in life and i am sure you and he will regret it further.
rest is up to you.
Regards